Help manage the money of someone you’re caring for

Depending on the kinds of difficulties someone’s having with their finances, the help you could provide might involve anything from helping them with bills and paperwork and assisting with their day-to-day money, through to taking on a lasting power of attorney.

Providing informal support

When you’re helping support someone with long-term-care needs, you should try to ensure that they’re making the best use of their money to meet those needs.

This might mean:

  • helping them with their care plan
  • making sure they have money to spend on the hobbies and activities they enjoy
  • that any allocated care budget is used wisely

A care plan is a written agreement between you and your health professional and/or social services to help you manage your health and wellbeing day to day.

The care plan is based on what you want so you’re in control. All the information in your care plan is private and you can share it as you choose.

You can have a care plan review at least once a year. You can also ask for one if you feel the care plan isn’t working or if other things in your life change.

If you find yourself managing a personal care budget that has been awarded by a local authority or the NHS, then it comes with certain responsibilities and obligations that you must fulfil.

What if someone needs more support?

Arranging to formally manage a friend or family member’s money for them is a big step for both of you.

For them it means giving up financial control and entrusting someone else with their money. For you it means taking on responsibility for someone else’s financial future. So it isn’t something to be entered into lightly.

The law says you must assume someone is able to make their own decisions unless there’s evidence to the contrary.

If the person you’re caring for ‘lacks mental capacity’, you can apply to the Office of the Public Guardian to be someone’s ‘deputy’ to formally handle their financial affairs. This would allow you to deal with, for example, the bank and care providers on their behalf.

Bearing all this in mind, it’s a good idea to think about mental capacity now and work out what you might need to do in the future.

Preparing for the future

Don’t put off setting up a power of attorney – it can take weeks to do.

Before setting up a lasting power of attorney you need to know what’s involved – the different types, how much it costs and how long it will take.